It
all began in the last couple of months in 2015. The struggle of raising my ACT
score, deciding where I was going to college, and battling with my relationship
drama controlled my life. I failed to notice how bad I was letting these
struggles affect me and my health. On Christmas day, I started feeling
overwhelmingly nauseous. I began to shake and feel really hot and then really
cold. I panicked because my church’s youth winter retreat was only days away,
and I wasn’t about to get sick and miss it! I told myself that it was just the
24 hour flu and that I would feel better the next day. But my mind kept playing
games with me, and I began to feel as if it were something more serious.
Disregarding the feeling I had, I continued packing for the trip and I was
beyond ready to go. The day to leave finally arrived, and I only felt worse. I
had lost all desire to consume food, and I had a headache that wouldn’t go
away. Still feeling miserable, I put my suitcase in the car and forced myself
to eat some breakfast on the way to church. Once I arrived at church, everyone
could see that I wasn’t myself. I felt weak, queasy, and all I wanted was to be
left alone to sulk in my misery. But I continued to be stubborn and insisted on
going on the trip! Luckily, my mother was coming on the trip as the
photographer, so we just drove separately in our own car. On the way to the
mountains I couldn’t help but wonder what was wrong with me. I wonder if it was
serious or not.
All I could do was worry and feel sorry for myself.
Hours
later, we arrived at camp and I went straight to my room to lie down. I tried
to get the sick feeling off my mind. It seemed to work a little bit, but deep
down, I knew something was wrong with me, and not knowing what it was made me
worry. Later that night, I began shaking and couldn’t even speak. My whole body
felt like it was shutting down. I told my mom I needed to go to the hospital.
About an hour later, I was in an emergency room with a doctor in front of me
telling me I had acid reflux. I can’t describe what I was experiencing, but I
knew it wasn’t acid reflux. I returned to camp frustrated because I felt like
we had traveled all the way down the mountain to receive no help. At this
point, I just tried taking it off my mind. The more I did that, the better I
felt. When I woke up the next morning, I still felt miserable. My diet consisted
of saltine crackers and cans of ginger ale. I could hardly move and it was
devastating me not to participate in the group activities. I so badly wanted to push
through the week because I wanted to hear from God.
The theme for this retreat was, “Forgetting
what lies behind. Striving for what lies ahead.” I felt like it was crucial for
me to hear the messages that were going to be preached. I haven’t had any major
troubles with my past and letting go of things, but I was terrified of my
future. I didn’t want to strive for what was ahead because I didn’t know what
it was going to look like. As I listened, God spoke to me and basically told me
to stop worrying! Each night at camp, my mom would come into my room and read
me Matthew 6:25-34. This passage speaks on worrying, and it really helped bring
me peace. I started thinking less about my college decisions, my job
opportunities, and my relationship drama. I knew that God had a plan for my
life, and why waste my time worrying about it. I genuinely felt God’s presence
in my life, and it felt more real than ever before. My faith grew immensely in
the middle of all my pain and suffering. Little did I know, all of this was
just the beginning of the journey that God was about to take me on. I may have
felt completely miserable, but it felt good to know that I still wanted to give
God all the glory.
As I went back home, I still felt nauseous. I
knew it wasn’t just my mind playing games with me, and I wanted to get to the
bottom of it. I met with my doctor, and she asked me about all my symptoms.
When I described the pain to her, she knew exactly what it was and sent me straight
to the hospital to have a CT scan, done just to confirm her assessment. Sure
enough, I received my results the next day, and I had not only one, but two
large ovarian cysts. I didn’t have any knowledge regarding these cysts, so I
just freaked out. I began surfing the internet and started researching what
they were and came only to see pictures of bloody surgeries and women
screaming. Anxiety flooded my thoughts, and I had so many questions.
Will I
need surgery? Is it a temporary thing? How much longer will this pain last? Am
I going to be able to have children?
My doctor answered all of my questions and
put me on the worst pills ever. These pills made the pain 10x worse. But they
were supposed to help dissolve the cysts, so I was willing to give them a try. Months passed as I was taking these pills, and
it was the worst experience of my life. I remember crying myself to sleep at
3:00 a.m. on the bathroom floor because the pain was so unbearable. I’m not one
for skipping church, but I missed a lot while I was on this medication. I woke
up every morning wishing the pain would go away. Until one day, God revealed to
me the story of Job. I’ve heard this story in the Bible before, but this time
it hit me so hard. I began wondering why I was suffering and what could be the
purpose of it. What if God was letting Satan put me through this pain to see if
I will still follow Him? When I started thinking of it from this perspective, I
definitely didn’t want Satan winning. God continued to grow my faith. I started
viewing things differently, and soon, I was learning how to praise Jesus in the
worst of circumstances.
On January 1, 2016, God told me that my quiet
times weren’t cutting it. If I truly wanted to be in His presence and
experience His glory, I was going to have to become a prayer warrior in a way I
had never thought I could be. So on the first day of the New Year, I was going
to commit to pray for everyone in my youth group by name every day. This commitment
impacted my life in a major way. My relationship with Jesus was growing daily, and
I loved it! God was teaching me so much, and I realized that as a Christ
follower, I should always want more. I should never be satisfied with where I
am in my walk with Jesus. These months were filled with a lot of challenges. I
was so in love with Jesus, and I didn’t want anything to get in the way of
that. I had to face a lot of heart ache and rough choices that changed my life.
But like always, God is a good God and calmed my worries.
The
summer rolled around and I was still in pain and just wanted to know why it had
not gone away by now. I knew most of the pain was coming from the pills that I
was on, so I was hoping I could get off of them. On June 16, 2016, (my 18th
birthday) I went to the doctor to have an ultrasound done. I was nervous, yet excited.
By this time, it had been 6 months of pain and discomfort. I was hoping that
the cysts had gone away, but I knew that no matter what the results were, that
God was going to be there for me. As I lay down in the room thinking, the lady
came in and did the test. She told me that both of my cysts had vanished! I was
extremely enthused, and I couldn’t wait to tell all of the people who had been
praying for me. At this point, I asked my doctor if I could stop taking the
pills. She said yes, so I began to enjoy my summer more and more. However,
still felt nauseous sometimes. The pain had gone away, but I questioned why I
was still feeling sick to my stomach all the time. I went back to the doctor
shortly after the ultrasound for a check-up, and my doctor told me I had major
anxiety issues. She asked if I wanted to be put on anti-anxiety pills, but I
knew that my God is a big God and He would be able to comfort and strengthen
me.
It’s
now the beginning of 2017, and I am writing this story. I
feel healthier than ever and my anxiety does not control my life like it once
did. I finally decided where I was going to college, and I couldn’t be happier
with my choice. I prayed about it, and I know that I am right where God wants
me. Throughout my classes, I did struggle with stress and anxiety. Since I was
homeschooled, this was my first time ever being in a real school atmosphere
before. I completed my first semester with all A’s, all while maintaining my
job as a manager at a restaurant. Sometimes I would feel nauseous during class,
but I know that’s just Satan trying to steal my joy and make me anxious. My commitment to praying for people everyday by name became a habit. This year, I continue to grow my relationship with Christ through praying even more and getting lost in His word. I
can’t live my life worrying about my future or about my health. I still think
about the distant future and what it will look like, but I’m done worrying
about it. When I start feeling nauseous, I’ve learned to just start praying and
to stay in an attitude of prayer throughout my day. I thank God for the past year, and though it had a lot of downs, they were really just ups in disguise. My relationship with Jesus
has drastically changed and now I’m growing closer to Him daily.
I live for
Christ Jesus and He takes good care of me.